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An Old Farmer's Advice, by Kathy Smith
While cleaning out the dump truck a few months ago, you know the two hour project yielding everything from the gloves my husband had me looking for, to bale strings, coffee cups, Bloomfield sale receipts, tools, straps to tie down the hay, pencils, etc., I came across this torn, dirty paper. My husband thinks a friend gave it to him. Youíve probably read it before but I thought it was worth repeating. Itís titled ďAn Old Farmerís Advice.Ē
Do not corner something that you know is meaner than you.
Words that soak into your ears are whispered, not yelled.
Meanness doesnít happen overnight.
Forgive your enemies. It messes up their heads.
It doesnít take a very big person to carry a grudge.
Every path has a few puddles.
The best sermons are lived, not preached.
Most of the stuff people worry about isnít ever going to happen anyway.
Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, youíll enjoy it a second time.
Donít interfere with something that isnít bothering you.
Timing has a lot to do with the outcome of a rain dance.
If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop digging.
The biggest troublemaker youíll ever have to deal with watches you from the mirror every morning.
Good judgment comes from experience and a lot of that comes from bad judgment.
Letting the cat out of the bag is a whole lot easier than putting it back in.
If you get to thinking youíre a person of some influence, try ordering somebody elseís dog around.
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God.
Kathy Smith is a farm wife from Wayne Township. She writes for the Ashtabula County Farm Bureau.